Just like coaches, athletes are always watching.
They notice how you respond when an official makes a call you disagree with. They see how you treat an athlete who's struggling. They hear how you talk about opponents. They notice whether you're prepared for practice, whether you're on time, and whether you hold yourself to the same standards you expect from them.
That's why culture starts with the coaching staff.
If we expect composure from the players, but lose ours when things go wrong, athletes notice. If we preach the importance of preparation, but show up disorganized, they notice that too. If we talk about respecting teammates but embarrass a player in front of the team, we've communicated something very different from what's written in our team values.
Don’t forget about parents and fans too – the team’s culture should be communicated and enforced off the playing field too. Remind parents that they also have to model the behaviors and standards, because athletes see and hear them also.
Why It Matters
Coaches establish what is normal within a program. The behaviors athletes see consistently modeled by the adults leading them become part of their understanding of how people in the program are expected to act. Culture becomes much easier to reinforce when coaches demonstrate the standards they're asking athletes to follow.
What Coaches Can Do
Choose three or four behaviors you want to define your program.
Maybe they're:
- Compete on every rep.
- Communicate with teammates.
- Respond to mistakes with composure.
- Treat everyone in the program with respect.
Then ask a harder question:
Does our coaching staff consistently demonstrate those same behaviors?
Coach's Challenge
At your next practice, evaluate yourself using the same standards you use to evaluate your players. Would you meet them?